I have found that not all ideas a) fit my budget b) are practical with small children in the house and c) please both the man and myself.
I have found ONE designer that I consistently try and copy - Linda Woodrum. You guys probably know her stuff - she's the diva behind the hgtv dream homes and their decor - CAN YOU SAY YUMMY??
I have saved every possible picture I can scour online only to try and see what i can do on the cheap - and that can be scaled down to my space.
This is pic of a dining room she did for the 2004 HGTV dream home. Be careful, that drool might mess up your shirt...

I love so many different things about this room, but ahhhh... i don't have the Ethan Allen DR set, or the beaded board, or those beautiful cream plates, or the wood floor....
I DO have the chocolate walls and ivory curtains!
Oh....wait - i have an old gym locker basket that has dead flowers in it on the porch....
I have candles....
oh, and I'VE GOT TONS of hydrangeas (another bad addiction).
And Big Lots had hurricanes on sale for $10....
What can i do....I can do this!

Ok, the chocolate is not that dark IRL - it has more caramel in it than it appears - and I my hurricanes aren't as feminine - mine were $10 people....and i had white saucers under mine, but in my small space it was too froufrou......i'm really really considering adding the beaded board, just not sold yet because the entire house is an open floor plan....
Oh well .... it was a good $10 update nonetheless!